Spending Versus Saving

 What should be your goals? Our parents were clear. Save before you buy. Almost no credit.

Made sense, but delayed gratification. Loans were not available, salaries were low.

But when I went for a few years to the U.S., I saw consumerism driving the economy. Most people bought on credit/loans. Homes, cars which had to be paid off in 15-20 years (homes) or 5 (cars). Credit checks were done through independent agencies that were reliable. 

Our generation lost that clarity. Incomes went up (back in India, after late 90s). So we did take loans as they opened up, for cars, computers (yes!) or washing machines (EMI), and sometimes homes.

Now, spend as you earn seems to be a norm, among young people, with building wealth the last thing on their minds.

My view is it depends on the life cycle, and how long you expect to live. If you can, finish your loan payments as early as possible in your working life- say, 30-50 years of age, and build capital for a pension or equivalent in the next ten or twelve. After 60, slow down and work less, spend on experiences that don't cost a bomb, steadily. Have an emergency fund for unforeseen large spends- usually medical.


Foolishness and April 1st

 Looks like world leaders don't wait till April 1st to be foolish. Russia launched the war in Ukraine in February 2022. Not to be outdone, Trump launched his Iran war in February 2026. 

We will have to wait and see if it ends by April 1st. Unless he gets the peace prize, looks unlikely. So some new foolishness may happen. 

But the rest of the world can indulge in their own foolish things. Elections, for example. There are some coming up in the neighbourhood (Bengal where I am right now), and a couple of other states in India. I usually don't understand the claims and promises made by politicians of all hues every 5 years, and have mostly given up trying to.

Of course, there are other things. Pettiness in personal life, and pandering to the ego, in all sorts of people. Ego massage could be a big industry if it were monetised. 

Fun times ahead, if you take a comical view of things. Look forward to April 1st.

Meeting Ananya and Sayantani

 It was a great afternoon-met two friends who are in Kolkata, one an alum of IMT N, and another a Ph.D. scholar who I met at a doctoral consortium. Sayantani is from the 2012 batch of Nagpur, and with ICICI Lombard ever since. Ananya Ghosh is doing her Ph.D. at St. Xavier's university. 

We had fun driving to Axis Mall, and having lunch at German Cafe at the entrance. We discovered the food was more Italian than German, and feasted on Pizza and Pasta. It was Eid, Ramzan, and most restaurants were crowded. We couldn't get parking inside Ecopark, which was our first choice. 

Talked about Merchant Navy, Doctors doing an MBA, and life in Kolkata, NOIDA and Pune (where I will be soon), and retirement time pass.

Pics from the fun outing- we had a cake too, that they'd brought along!

Sayantani (left) and Ananya

The cake came as a surprise! Had mine and ate it too!



 

Classifying Heroes

 Most entertaining - Rajnikanth, for sure. 

Handsome? Tie between Rajesh Khanna and Dharmendra

Great dialogue delivery- Raaj Kumar

Intensity - Amitabh Bacchhan

Natural- Sanjeev Kumar

Funny- Randhir Kapoor

Youth Icon- Rishi Kapoor (in my youth)

Evergreen Romantic- Dev Anand

Intangible- Kishore Kumar

Others, I was not so fond of


Wars at Will

 It's becoming a pandemic, with world leaders the most susceptible.

Starting wars, I mean. Look around in the last few years. More than any other problem, Coronavirus excluded, it's the manmade ones that are endemic. 

The Russian and the American (and a couple of others) heads of state seem to think it's their playground. They can get up one fine morning and declare a war. Or Abduct Heads of State.

The U.N. watches helplessly. 

If China were to take over Taiwan, the same jokers would preach differently. Or if North Korea were to attack South Korea.

A democracy should probably have a referendum, like that for Brexit, when an offensive is to be launched. The laws must hold a Head of State guilty for a war that nobody in the country wants.

Uprisings in Bangla Desh and Nepal have underscored that unpopular governments or leaders can be unseated by popular will. Some day, it might happen in the bigger nations.

Aunt Turns 90 in April

 I have many maternal aunts, two of whom are surviving. The elder one, Manik Gokhale, will soon turn 90. She has been global in her outlook, like many of her sisters, and lived in Malta and Libya for some years. Has two daughters settled in Australia and Germany. Her son, my cousin, is in Pune, so we meet more often.

She is in the centre in this pic, while we were celebrating the 75th of my cousin, right, back to the camera. Other cousins (mine) are in the pic, and one cousin's husband.

Her 90th will be celebrated soon, in Pune where she lives.



Selfies - A Collection

 These are selfies taken at different times.. 

Pratishtha Batra, Neeti Ingole, Sohni Roy at IIM Indore Audi

Rimjhim, Dheeraj at the lake (Doddabommasandra) 

Garima and Ayan at our place, Pune

Vijayakumar, Dhanapal at Kodaikanal Golf course

Silky Shrivastava and Arun Bhattacharyya, Prestige University

Howrah Bridge


Debasmita and Shrabani, JISU Convocation 2026 Feb.


Abha and Sheetal Koyla restaurant.. Colaba


Prachi and Akansh, IIM Indore ground


Spending Versus Saving

 What should be your goals? Our parents were clear. Save before you buy. Almost no credit. Made sense, but delayed gratification. Loans were...

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