Most Difficult Thing in Life

 According to me, it's letting go.

Try throwing away half the stuff you own, which some 'experts' keep recommending. Difficult? Yes, very.

Look at corporates/entrepreneurs who never retire. Or politicians, who hang on despite clearly being irrelevant, incapable, etc. I am not excluding anyone, just giving obvious examples to prove a point. It could be cricketers, or academicians too.

I have seen a couple of people incapable of even walking, and who were almost brain-dead according to me, travel great distances, just so they could feel they were doing something useful. That they travelled is great, but the fact is they did not have any value to add to those professional discussions. 

Some people start out by doing something good, and lose that capability. In their minds though, they cling on the past. Because letting go is tough. We also see that in personal life, where parents want to cling on to their kids, husbands are possessive about wives, and so on. 

I don't think it's easy, but it could be beneficial. Try and let go.

Light Baggage, Easy Journey

Those who travel a lot know the value of travelling light. The less the baggage, the easier the journey. For ourselves and others whom we affect. But such a common-sensical understanding eludes us when we come to the journey of life.

When you think back (if you are in my age bracket), some of our happiest days were when we possessed very little. But let us for a moment go beyond possessions. The baggage of the mind is also a tough thing to carry with us. Who did what to us when, and how we are going to make him/her pay for it, or to change their way of thinking or living (the fond hope of all spouses is to change the other, and that of parents, to change their children- both with little success), are thoughts that occupy a lot of our time.

What if we lightened up? Think about what we are enjoying, and which no one can touch. In India, in addition to air and water, we have liberty, freedom of speech (unless you are Rushdie or a similar persona non grata), rule of law (even if it is slow at times), and a lot more to be thankful for. Even gas connections are usually available now, which was not the case around 20 years ago. Education is also accessible to most, and barring foreign travel, which may be difficult for some given the rising dollar/falling rupee, you have pretty much everything.

Even structuring time available to us. We have a choice of pursuits, from watching Ekta Kapoor serials or Big Boss (yes, some find them entertaining), or reading, or watching films (downloaded ones are apparently available somewhere in the world), or playing with our kids. Do we shed the mental baggage and enjoy what we have? We should. Because we can.