Kabir Bedi's Autobiography

 One thing that strikes you about his stories, is their honesty. He does not shy away from his failures.. like the stock investments in Netscape. Or his failure to stop his son from committing suicide. Or his multiple attempts to make his marriages work. Not everyone is as honest, when writing about themselves.

His spectacular success in Italy when he played Sandokan is quite unique to an Indian actor, because this was not Hollywood. He did play a few roles in Hollywood movies and TV series, and rubbed shoulders with the best. Some of those anecdotes are very interesting, like when he had to walk out of a dinner that Gina Lollobrigida was hosting, because Parveen Babi was offended. Her mental illness is also handled sympathetically.

Many unknown facets emerge, like his acting in Theatre due to Alyque Padamsee, or his learning Vipassana at a young age, or his meeting the Dalai Lama, because his mother turned into a Buddhist nun, or that he is a direct descendant of Guru Nanak through his father.

Interesting read, and something new for everyone, I am sure.

My NMIMS Years (2020-2022)

 My NMIMS Years (2020-2022) at Bangalore as Director

This could be the next chapter in my autobiography. This was a unique adventure that I shall remember for a lot of things. One, meeting Rajiv Krishnan, a schoolmate who now lives in Bangalore, after I left school in 1977… that makes it 43 years! And he looked almost the same as he did back then. He’s a H.R. honcho from XLRI, and worked at Korn Ferry. Another schoolmate, Atul Bhatia who had worked in Cadbury now Mondelez), gave a guest lecture online to our MBA students.  

The students at NMIMS were missing, because I joined during COVID times. Late 2020. Since March, the dance of the Corona pandemic was on. So my interview itself was online, and I joined a position that a former colleague Vinay, had occupied earlier- he was with me at IIM Lucknow.

 

I used the time I had to get to know the faculty and administration guys better, and the students, subsequently. We conducted an online Convocation- the first to do so in the NMIMS community- sometime in early 2021. We had to do another one for the 2021 batch later that year, and only the 2022 Convocation could be done in person. Divya Anand and Sreelekha helped with the second, and Manuja Seth (who’s from Shivpuri, M.P.), managed the first online Convo as the M.C. Brilliantly, I should add. Rakshita was one of the M.C.s for the physical Convo held at Satya Sai hall, next to Forum Mall.

 

Above- Manuja Seth.

 Below- Rakshita is in the centre. She was in the placement team and was also the M.C. at the convocation held later.

 

Faculty were the first to come back, and I found they were a hard-working lot. We did a couple of FDPs with them, on Research methods and Teaching Excellence. I also guest lectured in a few MBA classes and BBA and B.Sc. Analytics/Statistics classes. Found the students to be very bright, and diverse- they came from all over India through an entrance test. Bangalore was their second choice, after Mumbai, usually.

 

I got a taste of centralized decision-making, as many of the policy decisions were taken out of Mumbai, which cramped my style a bit. I am a votary of autonomy to the branches. The management had different ideas.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The students, I first met online, and then, in person, with the exception of the placement team, which was in Bangalore throughout the pandemic. We also had a party to celebrate the successful closure of the 2021 batch placements! Ekalavya, the placement head, was the brain behind that happening, and the team really performed!

 

 

 One of the first students I met online before the inauguration was Mahek Singhal.

 

Later on, we met in person too, including at a Golf session during inauguration for the next batch. Above and below, in the photos, is Mahek.

 

 

 

 

 

A report-below- on how we oriented students in the first couple of days, including my session on personal branding and another on Golf!

 

 NMIMS Bengaluru Campus introduces personal branding (and Golf) at the 13th MBA batch orientation program

 

Bengaluru, 9 June 2022: SVKM’s Narsee Monjee Institute of Management Studies (NMIMS) Bengaluru Campus has introduced a first-of-its-kind session on ‘Personal Branding’ for students at the Orientation Program organized on the occasion of the 13th batch MBA course starting here today.

 

A session was dedicated to ‘Personal Branding’ under the title of “The Brand Called You” and discussed the ways in which MBAs can build students’ build their own brands while studying at NMIMS Bengaluru Campus for use in the job market. Building a brand is a marketing technique to fetch premiums over other candidates in the professional career. Learning these techniques will help students showcase their interpersonal skills that not many students are able to do.

 

Personal brand building encourages students to develop extra-curricular activities, participate in competitions, and engage with the concerned faculty in class and outside. Ms Aditi Ashok is a great example of a big personal brand to emulate, from another field. She is a Golf player who has represented India at the Olympics in Golf.

 

Speaking on the occasion, Dr. Rajendra Nargundkar, Director, NMIMS, Bengaluru Campus, said, “Every student needs to gear his personal branding to the target audience, maybe the first employer after MBA, and subsequently use these techniques in his career as he grows, adding more features to the brand image. So, it is important to start on the right footing which will help him brand for future in whichever field he opts for.”

  

The Chief Guest on the occasion was Mr Abhijit Sharma, Vice President, Data Labs, Landmark Group. Mr. Sharma said, “Prioritizing is what you will learn in the next two years. Be clear with where you want to go-make this your primary principle of prioritization. The best part of an MBA is having an opportunity to experience everything together and learn from each other, helping others in every way you can. Institutes have a certain character that comes from its stakeholders. One of the most critical pointers to note is the identity.”

 

A session on the second day of the Orientation Program will be dedicated to introducing students to Golf, a game popular amongst corporates and useful for networking with them.

 

 Meeting Old Alumni

 

Met a lot of alumni from various institutes, including IIM Indore (Shatakshi and Varun), KIAMS (Savitha, Nikhil Damle), and IMT (Anshita, Ishita, Anurag, Gowri, Sreeram, Anusha M. and Aashish, Rupam), IFIM (Chaithu), PES (Pooja Varun)…

 

The IMT Nagpur group, courtesy Anshita Abhishek Chetty, met at Orchid hotel, Koramangala, for lunch one afternoon. The big pic-

 

The next photograph is of Shatakshi and Varun, both alums of IIM Indore whom I never taught, but we met online and became good friends.

 

 

Shailaja Gupta Kapoor, who I did teach, started a big alumni group in Bangalore, that consists of alumni from all IIMs. I happened to attend the first couple of meets. They started small, but have expanded since. I met Nupur Prasmit of IIMK there, and happened to attend her wedding reception later (in 2023) after I moved to Indore!

 

Of course, one of the first alums I met was Savitha of batch 1 of KIAMS. She works for a Finnish Telecom firm, but she was with Deccan Herald when we met first. Also, she used to live right next to the NMIMS Koramangala campus earlier. We met a few times in my two years there. Once on the 13th floor on MG Road, and at other times, on lower floors.

A pic from our first meeting, below.

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Another Live Music Show

 


Saw this musical show yesterday. Was familiar with two of the singers, who turned out to be the best- Ghafar Momin and Monali Dubey.. they sang a few good oldies, like Dil Pukare from Jewel Thief.

Another singer -Abhay Peshwe- was good too. He sang Phoolon ke Rang se.. 

The emcee, Ghanshyam Agarwal, had a great command of Urdu and Hindi, and was engaging! Also humourous at times. 

A nice outing, all in all.. it was free too.

Positive and Negative

 How do you remain positive/optimistic in the face of all the negative stuff happening around you? War, bullying, violence, crime and global warming?

I don't have a standard prescription, but some of these can probably help-

- a hobby you are passionate about

- focus on your own work, shutting out distractions

- working for a social cause

- playing a sport (not watching it)

- going out to see how people live, across income levels/professions

- meeting people socially and drowning your sorrows together.


West Coast Relatives Come to Pune

West Coast of the U.S., I mean. We met in Bangalore, then they left for California, and came back to meet us yesterday- June 9, 2026. Pushkar is a nephew, son of my cousin Baby (Prabha), and his wife Veena is from Pune. They have two kids now, and they have grown up. Rajvi and Raghav are in High School and Middle School, respectively. There was a lot of banter, and some food.

Raghav, Pushkar and Veena


Rajvi with Veena, Anu and Pooja and Prarthana


Baby with Pooja and Prarthana
Baby and me- she's 80, I am 65.


 

Met Gala- A Meeting of Musical Minds

 We had our own Met Gala at Mumbai, thanks to some friends who like music. Sheetal Garg, her husband Kausshal, Dipti Kane, Bhagyalakshmi and Venkatesh (hosts), and my wife and I participated, minus fancy costumes. Great fun, we sang many favourites on karaoke, including a few Jagjit Singh ghazals. 





Venkatesh and I also recorded a Chat Masala episode featuring our favourite songs.. solos and duets.

Apne Ghar Jaisa- Play

 A play with a play on Expectation versus Reality.



An old lady is imagining what a new tenant will be like, while coming to terms with the loss of her son. Her husband has agreed to let out the son's room to a stranger called "Shaukeen" (she thinks). 

It is a solo performance, almost, with her imagining the caste, religion, and habits of the tenant before he appears. She vacillates between a nice picture of him to replace her lost son, and depicting him as a complete outsider with strange habits, eating as well as lifestyle-related.

An unexpected twist at the end makes the one hour play watchable- suspense of a kind.

Padmavati Rao performed the old lady's role very well, with a variety of emotions showing while she sets up the room. Produced by Ranga Shankara, Karnataka. A part of the Shreeram Lagoo Theatre Festival.

Losses

 Lost a young nephew, Nikhil, short of his 30th birthday, last week. He was a helicopter pilot, and his chopper crashed while he was on duty, ferrying passengers. One of the two passengers survived, miraculously. 

He was unconventional in his choice of careers. Dropped out of engineering, and taught himself/trained for Welding. Worked with a firm for a couple of years, and then trained to become a helicopter pilot. He was quite good at it too. Bad weather probably caused this crash, that turned out to be fatal. 

Maybe our leaving the planet is pre-determined, because there is no easy explanation for deaths of this kind, and survivors at the other end. 

Anyway, we live on, and try to cope with mishaps. 

When he was young, above. When he was grownup, and visited India, below, sitting, left.


With an Indian grandpa, in Pune and with his Mom, in Harihar.


At my Mom's 88th, Pune, and Hari's book launch in Pune


Admiring a round roti, and in a family pic


Above- At Arts College, Osmania University, on a visit.


A Pune Gathering of Cousins

 On June 1st, we met with cousins who were available in Pune. The purpose was two-fold. To celebrate the birthday of our youngest aunt, mother of our host Jyotsna, and to remember Nikhil, my nephew whom we lost unexpectedly in a helicopter accident in Atlanta USA. The second came out of the blue, and we were still coming to terms with it.

Some of the cousins/families present. 








Nikhil is sitting, left, in the pic above. That was my Mom's 88th birthday in 2017, at Pune. His parents are behind him.


Aamne Saamne- Marathi Play

 Saw a great play in Marathi titled Aamne Saamne. It's a story of two couples, one old and one young. The young ones pretend to be married to live as tenants with the older couple. Their stories intermingle, and both learn from each other. A lot of hilarious and serious sequences later. Directed and acted in by Mangesh Kadam, the older husband in the play. Very good dialogue, acting and comic timing.. 



The older couple..

and all four taking the bow at the close..


Shriram Lagoo Festival

 Went to a Hindi play that was a part of the week-long festival. Amol Palekar was in the audience. The play, Naam me Kya Rakhwo Hai? or What's in a Name? was a satire on several things including gender equality, Kings and Ministers, and touristy artefacts or performances presented as "culture" to foreigners visiting India. Brilliant set design, acting and direction. Music too. 



The actors and the Writer/Director in front(there was a lady writer with him too)





Penn Masala- a Band From a University Abroad

 Went to a concert where only vocals rule.. the band does not use any musical instruments. A fusion experiment from the University of Pennsylvania, USA, the play a mix of Hindi and English songs.. or sing them. Interesting experiment, and moderately good singing. There are ten men in the band, I think. No women. That reduces the diversity of what they can sing, but the energy levels are high. I was not familiar with the English songs, but a few Hindi ones were pretty decent. 6.5 on 10.

All of them sing or perform music together, with no instruments..



Innovation- Not the Grand Launches

 Innovation is misunderstood. It is not only breakthrough technology or products, it's many small things too. We see them around us every now and then. On the road, in a friend's home, or in a restaurant.

Look at the pic above- it's a novel idea to combine small eats in a platter, served in a typical Masala Box that is found in kitchens around India.

The eats are to go with drinks. We found this at a restaurant called Hitchki. The chilli sauce in the middle was a great dip!
Mujhe hitchki jo aaye to, hungama ho gay..



Economy and Coaches on a Train

 You may have heard of the Comparison of Economies using a Burger's Price in various countries.

I have a new model to compare the economies of Cities. It's called the number of Coaches on Suburban Trains. Economy Size is directly proportional to the number of coaches on your Suburban trains (metro or otherwise).

Mumbai has suburban trains (local) with 12 coaches. So does the Delhi Metro, on most lines. 

Pune has 3-coach metro trains. Maybe more on suburban lines to Lonavala.. 

Hyderabad, likewise.

Kolkata has very few coaches on its metro trains.. maybe more on Suburban local trains to Belur and so on.

If you can do the Math, you will get an idea of the local economy. You can factor in the number of passengers using these as an additional factor in the calculation.

This is how new theories are born.. like an apple falling on your head!

Cockroaches Get a New Life

 Whenever we see a cockroach, the first instinct is to squat it, or run.. mostly the first. Because it can't attack you back.. at most it can fly.

But now we have a whole political party named after it. The most potent force in politics? We will have to wait and see. But the idea has caught on, apparently triggered by a remark made in a court by India's Chief Justice. He probably used a metaphor in the heat of the moment, but unwittingly gave birth to a lot of memes, cartoons and now, a whole Political Party too.

So it's probably going to lead to a re-look at Lizards, Flies, and my favourite- the Mosquito? I must go tell my friend Anopheles! We have been conversing about various things human for many years, but this- a Mosquito Political Party- is a brand new possibility!

Why I Can't be an Entrepreneur

Too much work, if I have to put it succintly. Matlab, there are no defined work hours. The buck stops with you, so everyone looks up to you for advice, guidance and operational decisions. How do I know? I have worked with promoters in the education sector.

Also, chasing payments is one part of their role- or any role- that I dislike. Of course, many of those I worked with had the reverse problem-they wouldn't pay vendors on time, until they were  chased for months.

I would rather be at peace knowing that I can leave it all if I feel like it, and let the CEOs or promoters carry the burden the rest of the time. 

Work-life balance is a thing, yaar.

Another Interesting Musical Show

 Saw another musical show (on May 19th 2026) by a new bunch of singers, barring one- Rajabhau Tikhe, whom I had seen earlier. This was titled Main Sharabi Nahi and focussed on songs while the characters in films were drunk. Also a couple of ghazals about drinking, by Pankaj Udhas were on offer.

A couple of good songs from Haath ki Safai (Tu kya jaane wafa o bewafa) and Inteqam (Aa jaane jaan) brought back memories of those films. Sung by Sophiya Michael and Snehal Apte, which I recorded. Some pics-


Sophiya Michael above and Snehal Apte below

Sandhya Kurhade and Rajabhau Tikhe sing a duet, below



Kabir Bedi's Autobiography

 One thing that strikes you about his stories, is their honesty. He does not shy away from his failures.. like the stock investments in Nets...

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