On the verge of turning 51 in a few days, I read a meaningful book. Man's Search for Ultimate Meaning, by Viktor Frankl. This guy also wrote a book with the 'ultimate' word missing- Man's Search for Meaning. I had read the first book as a part of our recommended reading during MBA at IIMB ages ago, and don't recall the whole story, but it was about retaining sanity in the face of a concentration camp experience. The author went through it, and survived.
This one is more elaborate about schools of thought in psychotherapy, and what the author calls logotherapy- the search for meaning kind of therapy. His basic contention is that man is more than the bone and muscle and brain, and is mainly driven by what he perceives as "meaningful" stuff. He argues fairly convincingly, that a person who finds meaning needs little else- not that other things hurt, but they are not sufficient for people. He cites several people who are well-to-do by their own standards and yet dissatified. When given something to think about regarding their purpose in life, many turn around. Drugs, and similar addictions, he says are due more to a lack of meaning and purpose than any seeking of pleasure per se.
He says the breakdown of tradition and values has confused people, as they no longer know what their reasons for existing are. Suicides are one manifestation of this, even in materially rich countries. He is also very optimistic that given a purpose, people can do wonders in even the most adverse circumstances. He is living proof of a sort.
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5 comments:
Wow! looks like a good read.
Advance wishes for a happy birthday... Have a nice day and a great year.
'Meaning' dhunte rehe jaoge!
Baddhaiyaan!
Ha, ha. I like the apt use of the Surf ad. Thanks, Sowmya too. Looking forward to gracing the earth for a few more years, so you may be subjected to some more blogs.
I believe that it is an important question to ask of oneself - what the purpose is. It gives a shape, a direction, something finite to work at. Instead of wild hoping, it gives a purposeful approach to creation.
A wonderful example of someone having a clear purpose in life is Dev Anand. I am sure that at some moment in his life he have told himself that his purpose in life was to make movies - and look at him. The attitude is unbelievable. The world be damned but I will make my movies! Fantastic!
Yeah, Dev Anand had a great attitude-one of my icons. I enjoyed reading his autobiography too.
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