Unknown Tourist Spots

 Relatively unknown ones I have been to- 

Rajanahalli and Kondajji, near Harihar, Karnataka, where I lived from 1995 till 2001. 

Lonar meteorite created Crater lake. Buldana district, Maharashtra.

Raneh falls, near Khajuraho in M.P. Had never even heard of them before.

Kinnersani, because we lived in Kothagudem nearby and used to go picnicking with our club. A riverside resort.

Jorhat, the Memorial for the Ahom King- forget the name, but it's impressive.

Chikmagalur..it's beautiful, and under-rated. The lake there too.. Hirekerur, I think.

Brittany region in France. We went to a Fort on the Sea Coast, Mt. St. Michael, which is magnificient.

Any corner of Greece, it's historic.

Small parks in South Carolina.

Kuldhara, ghost town near Jaisalmer.

Bhimtal, lesser know cousin of Nainital.



Anniversary Dinner for the 38th

 I am told (by my wife) that the right way to celebrate an anniversary is to have dinner outside. So we did- I am an obedient husband. Vanam is a new South Indian place, somewhat premium- somewhat like Carnatic in Bangalore, minus drinks. Off Prabhat Road. Pretty decent starters (like Chettinad chicken and mashed Parotha), and then Donne biryani, Appams and stew. We along with daughters Pooja and Prarthana) had a good time.





One man Show in Pune

 Just saw a 2490th performance of a Marathi one man act. Assal Manase, Irsaal Namune. By a chap called Prabhakar Nilegaonkar. It takes a lot to do this. He acts as mutiple people, both male and female. Talented. Reminded me of Babban Khan in Hyderabad, who used to do this.. though he had a couple of characters mostly as props.. 

With him after the show..


Citizenship

 Not sure if I am a citizen anymore. I had a passport, but someone in the Ministry of External Affairs just said it doesn't prove I am a citizen. 

Well, maybe the fact that we are a part of the Universe is enough. It makes us a universal or global citizen. If only Trump, Starmer (or whoever is the next PM there), and other world leaders understood this. 

I do have an Aadhar card, but I am without any support (Aadhar) when it comes to proving my credentials. 

I have kids and they were born here in India. Are they citizens? Not sure anymore, the way things are going.

Anyway, when I know more, I will let you know. Till then, let's imagine a floating citizenship for ourselves.

Pu La Deshpande

 To honour the memory of Pu La Deshpande, famous humourist, there was a program at the Film Archives, Pune. A film about him was screened, and many speakers in a panel spoke about his achievements. Good way to keep the memory alive-





The 2 day program concluded with an award named after Pu La being given to Shama Bhate (above), a Kathak dancer from Pune who has done a lot for the art form. There was also a Films Division documentary about Pu La, mostly in the first person, narrated by him. It has his trademark wit.. for example, he says his father worked in a paper maker's firm, and did not realise his son would waste reams of paper trying to write something on them.. also, when he had gone to donate blood, while the syringe was in his vein, the blood bank owner asked him for a donation, which he was scared to refuse.. obviously!

38 Together and Going



 Our anniversary is coming up on 26th.. it's number 38. Tough to remember all the ups and downs we went through, first couple of years in the U.S. and then the rest in India, with a few trips to Sri Lanka, cambodia and Vietnam thrown in. A Eurail tour on the way back took us to Greece, Italy and France, Netherlands etc. We went to a friend's place in Brittany, near the Northern coast where Mt. St. Michael is located. 

Made friends in the U.S., Ron and Carmon Green, Leslie and Bob, the Sonis, and Athena and her family, Annie and Samrendra Singh and their sons, and a few more. Wilma Reeves and a Filipino faculty, Ceferina Hess, for example.

We also had a group of Indian friends, Alok, Anil, Suresh and my brother Satish hung out together. Alok's wife Pam too. We went to Charleston, Gatlinburg, L.A.  and Las Vegas, plus a few National parks like Grand Canyon, Petrified Forest and so on. Visited Kiran Kenjale and Neena in L.A. and Prakash and Meena, in Detroit.

Made a few friends in our long stay in India at multiple places- Bani and BK Mohanty in Bhubaneswar, Bhagyalakshmi and Shweta Kushal at IIM Indore, Smita Dabholkar and Gadgil at IMT Nagpur, Vijayakumar and family, Dhanapal and family and Yashad Gaur, in Harihar, Anjula Gurtoo in Lucknow, and Shraddha and Neeraj in IIMK. Also Ravi and Dipi in Calicut. We also have musical friends from a group on FB.

We have a wide social circle that includes her schoolmates and students from when she taught (Vaseem), and mine from IIMB, Osmania and all the places I taught in, like IIM Indore (Sanjana Rao, Anusha Soni, Pratima Gaekwad) and IMT, (Ishita Modi, Garima Shah). Keeps us occupied. Plus all the Plays and concerts that we are able to attend in Pune regularly. Life is a party, when you have the right company, right?

Classy RD Burman Concert

 A classy concert featuring RD Burman-composed songs in Pune yesterday (23rd June, 2026)

Selection of songs, singing and camaraderie among singers was a notch above the usual. Pancham magic working, maybe.. here are a couple of glimpses.

Moutusi Das and Satish Ingle were the highlights, and sang Dun Maro Dum and the medley from Hum Kisise Kam Nahi very well. Mehbooba, mehbooba also. Meri jaan maine kahaa was  also done nicely. Aparna sang Piya tu ab to aaja with zest. Lots of great RD songs were featured.. a treat!

Kranti Shah was a great Emcee too, her second I have seen.





Songs by Different Music Directors

 That was the theme of a nice program, Yaadon ki Baraat, that I saw yesterday (June 22, 2026) at a Pune auditorium. This was the group's 50th such program, and a guest singer was Preeti Pethkar. She sang Pyar kiya to darna kya .. very well. A fusion experiment with whistling was good too, and a flute artist who played the song on Flute. Some other singers were good too,. Bipin and Saavni among them- Bipin sounded like Kishore Kumar- a rarity (White-haired guy, and lady in Yellow in the pic). Music directors ranged from C. Ramchandra to Annu Malik and Jatin-Lalit.





Movie Classics in Marathi

Marathi films have had great pioneers like Dadasaheb Phalke and V. Shantaram. Recently, there was a festival of films, of which we saw two. Saamna starring Nilu Phule and Dr. Shreeram Lagoo was a classic about a duel between a powerful local businessman and a principled man who hunts him down for his misdeed. The story is by Vijay Tendulkar. Directed well by Jabbar Patel.



The second was a comedy based on two couples (actually four men, two disguised as women) who are tenants in an old woman's house. Their shenanigans to keep up the pretense, and love stories developing which add to the confusion, is the plot. Hrishikesh Mukherjee had used this plot in his movie called Biwi aur Makaan, in a film earlier. It is hilarious, with good acting and direction by Sachin. Ashok Saraf (who starred in the Hum Paanch serial on TV) and Laxmikant Berde steal the show. Supriya Pilgaonkar and Ashwini Bhave play the love interests. Name of the film is Ashi hi Banva Banvi.



Kabir Bedi's Autobiography

 One thing that strikes you about his stories, is their honesty. He does not shy away from his failures.. like the stock investments in Netscape. Or his failure to stop his son from committing suicide. Or his multiple attempts to make his marriages work. Not everyone is as honest, when writing about themselves.

His spectacular success in Italy when he played Sandokan is quite unique to an Indian actor, because this was not Hollywood. He did play a few roles in Hollywood movies and TV series, and rubbed shoulders with the best. Some of those anecdotes are very interesting, like when he had to walk out of a dinner that Gina Lollobrigida was hosting, because Parveen Babi was offended. Her mental illness is also handled sympathetically.

Many unknown facets emerge, like his acting in Theatre due to Alyque Padamsee, or his learning Vipassana at a young age, or his meeting the Dalai Lama, because his mother turned into a Buddhist nun, or that he is a direct descendant of Guru Nanak through his father.

Interesting read, and something new for everyone, I am sure.

My NMIMS Years (2020-2022)

 My NMIMS Years (2020-2022) at Bangalore as Director

This could be the next chapter in my autobiography. This was a unique adventure that I shall remember for a lot of things. One, meeting Rajiv Krishnan, a schoolmate who now lives in Bangalore, after I left school in 1977… that makes it 43 years! And he looked almost the same as he did back then. He’s a H.R. honcho from XLRI, and worked at Korn Ferry. Another schoolmate, Atul Bhatia who had worked in Cadbury now Mondelez), gave a guest lecture online to our MBA students.  

The students at NMIMS were missing, because I joined during COVID times. Late 2020. Since March, the dance of the Corona pandemic was on. So my interview itself was online, and I joined a position that a former colleague Vinay, had occupied earlier- he was with me at IIM Lucknow.

 

I used the time I had to get to know the faculty and administration guys better, and the students, subsequently. We conducted an online Convocation- the first to do so in the NMIMS community- sometime in early 2021. We had to do another one for the 2021 batch later that year, and only the 2022 Convocation could be done in person. Divya Anand and Sreelekha helped with the second, and Manuja Seth (who’s from Shivpuri, M.P.), managed the first online Convo as the M.C. Brilliantly, I should add. Rakshita was one of the M.C.s for the physical Convo held at Satya Sai hall, next to Forum Mall.

 

Above- Manuja Seth.

 Below- Rakshita is in the centre. She was in the placement team and was also the M.C. at the convocation held later.

 

Faculty were the first to come back, and I found they were a hard-working lot. We did a couple of FDPs with them, on Research methods and Teaching Excellence. I also guest lectured in a few MBA classes and BBA and B.Sc. Analytics/Statistics classes. Found the students to be very bright, and diverse- they came from all over India through an entrance test. Bangalore was their second choice, after Mumbai, usually.

 

I got a taste of centralized decision-making, as many of the policy decisions were taken out of Mumbai, which cramped my style a bit. I am a votary of autonomy to the branches. The management had different ideas.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The students, I first met online, and then, in person, with the exception of the placement team, which was in Bangalore throughout the pandemic. We also had a party to celebrate the successful closure of the 2021 batch placements! Ekalavya, the placement head, was the brain behind that happening, and the team really performed!

 

 

 One of the first students I met online before the inauguration was Mahek Singhal.

 

Later on, we met in person too, including at a Golf session during inauguration for the next batch. Above and below, in the photos, is Mahek.

 

 

 

 

 

A report-below- on how we oriented students in the first couple of days, including my session on personal branding and another on Golf!

 

 NMIMS Bengaluru Campus introduces personal branding (and Golf) at the 13th MBA batch orientation program

 

Bengaluru, 9 June 2022: SVKM’s Narsee Monjee Institute of Management Studies (NMIMS) Bengaluru Campus has introduced a first-of-its-kind session on ‘Personal Branding’ for students at the Orientation Program organized on the occasion of the 13th batch MBA course starting here today.

 

A session was dedicated to ‘Personal Branding’ under the title of “The Brand Called You” and discussed the ways in which MBAs can build students’ build their own brands while studying at NMIMS Bengaluru Campus for use in the job market. Building a brand is a marketing technique to fetch premiums over other candidates in the professional career. Learning these techniques will help students showcase their interpersonal skills that not many students are able to do.

 

Personal brand building encourages students to develop extra-curricular activities, participate in competitions, and engage with the concerned faculty in class and outside. Ms Aditi Ashok is a great example of a big personal brand to emulate, from another field. She is a Golf player who has represented India at the Olympics in Golf.

 

Speaking on the occasion, Dr. Rajendra Nargundkar, Director, NMIMS, Bengaluru Campus, said, “Every student needs to gear his personal branding to the target audience, maybe the first employer after MBA, and subsequently use these techniques in his career as he grows, adding more features to the brand image. So, it is important to start on the right footing which will help him brand for future in whichever field he opts for.”

  

The Chief Guest on the occasion was Mr Abhijit Sharma, Vice President, Data Labs, Landmark Group. Mr. Sharma said, “Prioritizing is what you will learn in the next two years. Be clear with where you want to go-make this your primary principle of prioritization. The best part of an MBA is having an opportunity to experience everything together and learn from each other, helping others in every way you can. Institutes have a certain character that comes from its stakeholders. One of the most critical pointers to note is the identity.”

 

A session on the second day of the Orientation Program will be dedicated to introducing students to Golf, a game popular amongst corporates and useful for networking with them.

 

 Meeting Old Alumni

 

Met a lot of alumni from various institutes, including IIM Indore (Shatakshi and Varun), KIAMS (Savitha, Nikhil Damle), and IMT (Anshita, Ishita, Anurag, Gowri, Sreeram, Anusha M. and Aashish, Rupam), IFIM (Chaithu), PES (Pooja Varun)…

 

The IMT Nagpur group, courtesy Anshita Abhishek Chetty, met at Orchid hotel, Koramangala, for lunch one afternoon. The big pic-

 

The next photograph is of Shatakshi and Varun, both alums of IIM Indore whom I never taught, but we met online and became good friends.

 

 

Shailaja Gupta Kapoor, who I did teach, started a big alumni group in Bangalore, that consists of alumni from all IIMs. I happened to attend the first couple of meets. They started small, but have expanded since. I met Nupur Prasmit of IIMK there, and happened to attend her wedding reception later (in 2023) after I moved to Indore!

 

Of course, one of the first alums I met was Savitha of batch 1 of KIAMS. She works for a Finnish Telecom firm, but she was with Deccan Herald when we met first. Also, she used to live right next to the NMIMS Koramangala campus earlier. We met a few times in my two years there. Once on the 13th floor on MG Road, and at other times, on lower floors.

A pic from our first meeting, below.

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Another Live Music Show

 


Saw this musical show yesterday. Was familiar with two of the singers, who turned out to be the best- Ghafar Momin and Monali Dubey.. they sang a few good oldies, like Dil Pukare from Jewel Thief.

Another singer -Abhay Peshwe- was good too. He sang Phoolon ke Rang se.. 

The emcee, Ghanshyam Agarwal, had a great command of Urdu and Hindi, and was engaging! Also humourous at times. 

A nice outing, all in all.. it was free too.

Positive and Negative

 How do you remain positive/optimistic in the face of all the negative stuff happening around you? War, bullying, violence, crime and global warming?

I don't have a standard prescription, but some of these can probably help-

- a hobby you are passionate about

- focus on your own work, shutting out distractions

- working for a social cause

- playing a sport (not watching it)

- going out to see how people live, across income levels/professions

- meeting people socially and drowning your sorrows together.


West Coast Relatives Come to Pune

West Coast of the U.S., I mean. We met in Bangalore, then they left for California, and came back to meet us yesterday- June 9, 2026. Pushkar is a nephew, son of my cousin Baby (Prabha), and his wife Veena is from Pune. They have two kids now, and they have grown up. Rajvi and Raghav are in High School and Middle School, respectively. There was a lot of banter, and some food.

Raghav, Pushkar and Veena


Rajvi with Veena, Anu and Pooja and Prarthana


Baby with Pooja and Prarthana
Baby and me- she's 80, I am 65.


 

Met Gala- A Meeting of Musical Minds

 We had our own Met Gala at Mumbai, thanks to some friends who like music. Sheetal Garg, her husband Kausshal, Dipti Kane, Bhagyalakshmi and Venkatesh (hosts), and my wife and I participated, minus fancy costumes. Great fun, we sang many favourites on karaoke, including a few Jagjit Singh ghazals. 





Venkatesh and I also recorded a Chat Masala episode featuring our favourite songs.. solos and duets.

Apne Ghar Jaisa- Play

 A play with a play on Expectation versus Reality.



An old lady is imagining what a new tenant will be like, while coming to terms with the loss of her son. Her husband has agreed to let out the son's room to a stranger called "Shaukeen" (she thinks). 

It is a solo performance, almost, with her imagining the caste, religion, and habits of the tenant before he appears. She vacillates between a nice picture of him to replace her lost son, and depicting him as a complete outsider with strange habits, eating as well as lifestyle-related.

An unexpected twist at the end makes the one hour play watchable- suspense of a kind.

Padmavati Rao performed the old lady's role very well, with a variety of emotions showing while she sets up the room. Produced by Ranga Shankara, Karnataka. A part of the Shreeram Lagoo Theatre Festival.

Losses

 Lost a young nephew, Nikhil, short of his 30th birthday, last week. He was a helicopter pilot, and his chopper crashed while he was on duty, ferrying passengers. One of the two passengers survived, miraculously. 

He was unconventional in his choice of careers. Dropped out of engineering, and taught himself/trained for Welding. Worked with a firm for a couple of years, and then trained to become a helicopter pilot. He was quite good at it too. Bad weather probably caused this crash, that turned out to be fatal. 

Maybe our leaving the planet is pre-determined, because there is no easy explanation for deaths of this kind, and survivors at the other end. 

Anyway, we live on, and try to cope with mishaps. 

When he was young, above. When he was grownup, and visited India, below, sitting, left.


With an Indian grandpa, in Pune and with his Mom, in Harihar.


At my Mom's 88th, Pune, and Hari's book launch in Pune


Admiring a round roti, and in a family pic


Above- At Arts College, Osmania University, on a visit.


Kirloskar Institute Days

 The pic shows us with the Founders/ Board Members. Mr. Rahul and Sanjay are in the top row, along with colleagues Niranjan Swain and Vijaya...

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